Keep your people close. Their birthdays, stories, and moments — all in one private place, right on your iPhone.
Notes, quick facts, birthdays, addresses — every detail about the people you love, in one place you'll actually check.
Set a contact cadence. Get nudged. The people who matter should hear from you more than once a year.
A library of message templates for every occasion — birthdays, check-ins, congratulations. Personalized in seconds.
Everything inside
Starlings brings together everything you'd normally forget, organized around the people in your life.
Birthdays, anniversaries, and custom dates surface before they happen, with customizable advance notifications.
Store notes, facts, pet names, work history, and anything else worth remembering per person.
Set weekly, monthly, or quarterly check-in goals per person and get nudged when it's time.
Write freely and link entries to the people who were there. Filter by label, search everything.
Build a reusable library for every occasion. Customize tone — warm, funny, formal — and copy in seconds.
Attach tasks directly to people. "Send Sara a gift." "Follow up with Dad." Never let an intention slip.
Log money or items lent and borrowed per person. Know what's outstanding without awkward guessing.
Record calls, meetups, and messages. Build a living history of each relationship over time.
Bring in your iPhone contacts in seconds. Starlings reads them once at your request and never touches them again.
Privacy first
Starlings is built on a simple belief: personal relationship data is too sensitive to live on someone else's server. Everything stays on your iPhone.
Pricing
Start free with 5 contacts. Upgrade once if you want more.
one-time purchase · no subscription · no renewal
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From the blog
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